It is absurd, unfair and unreasonable to expect your spouse to suddenly keep the seventh commandment in marriage when both of you have practiced and perfected breaking it before marriage.
Some even go as far as saying they will divorce such a spouse. I say: if you didn’t dump him/her for doing it (with you) before marriage, don’t divorce him/her. Why make marriage look bad?
I am always surprised by young people who say if my spouse commits adultery or break the 7th commandment I will divorce him/her whether worse thing that could ever happen in marriage is adultery when