Warning: A wedding day can hurt your marriage.
I am even tempted to say that many marriages have been killed by wedding days. It is amazing how people would spend so much money, energy and time to prepare for one day and yet very little effort is taken to prepare for the life thereafter. Wedding days are suffering from the societal disease called materialism. Many plan weddings that they can’t afford just to keep up with the Mudau’s. And as soon as they are married the first thing they have to deal with is debts and the payment of credit cards, overdrafts and personal loans. And all this quickly destroys the joy and happiness in the family. It is better to have a lousy (cheap) wedding day and have a powerful (and happy) marriage life.
@ Living Power Pre-marital Counselling services we encourage our couples to invest more in marriage than on a day.